Should You Just Give Up or Try To Save A Relationship
December 28th, 2009When you are on the verge of separation, or if it has already happened, the world can seem a dark place. Your mind will be spinning with thoughts ranging from hatred, love, relief and pure regret. Your stomach is tied in knots and you can’t eat, laugh or think of anything else but your lost love. All these high emotions are normal. As for the real pain you feel in your heart. No one can appreciate just how much hurt you can feel until it is experienced in person. It is easier to just give up on a relationship and not try to save it because you are completely confused, desperate and vulnerable. You don’t know what to do for the best – or even if you want to save anything at all!
If you have had a long decline in the relationship, perhaps infidelity, perhaps even emotional or physical abuse, there may be good reasons to ending it for once and for all. However, it is worth examining the relationship before it turned sour. What exactly happened to change your feelings for each other? Were you just mismatched form the start or did you really connect and then lose the way due to the pressures of life? All these questions, understanding motives and making an informed decision about whether to save a relationship takes experience and quite frankly a little human psychology – which are probably not going to be on your list of strong points (this is quite a science!).
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