How do I overcome my fear of rejection to start a new relationship with my ex-wife?
August 12th, 2010If it was me, I would just visualize myself as happy with “someone” (there should not be a name or face) and enjoying activities with that person.
If you desire re-marriage then see your wedding, clearly, and feel the emotions of it, feel the ring on your finger, but don’t see the face of the person beside you. Know that you want the person who is best for you, and you are best for. Want the best possible outcome in a relationship. Allow the universe to either slip your ex into that place, or someone else. You can’t force anything when it comes to another person, this could backfire on you.
If it’s right, and good for both of you, then it will work out; if not you will move on in heart and mind. I wouldn’t dwell on the feelings of rejection, or on the feelings of wondering if it is right. Imagine what is best for you and let the rest fall into place.
